(Closed) Should I still give her a STD?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I invite her?
    Yes, keep your word. : (3 votes)
    38 %
    No, it doesn't seem like she would miss it. : (1 votes)
    13 %
    No, it doesn't seem like you would miss having her there. : (4 votes)
    50 %
    Other suggestion : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    300 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I think you should not send an STD because it will buy you some more time before you have to decide whether you send her an actual invitation. It will allow you to see how the relationship develops over the next couple of months. If you send an STD then you have to invite her.

    Post # 4
    1418 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    If you are unsure at this point, I would not send her a STD.  Many people do not send Save-The-Date Cards at all.  However, when you get closer to the wedding and sending the actual invitations, you can decide if you want to invite her or not.

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