Post # 1
I have a classmate who I used to talk to often, but now I don’t. We have just became busy. When I first became engaged, we talked about her coming to the wedding. But in the past few months we haven’t really talked too much. I am now under the impression that she is not someone who would hang out with me outside of the classroom (or personal level). I am now thinking about not inviting her, but I feel guilty because I told her that I would. Do you think I would be wrong if I didn’t invite her?
Post # 3
I think you should not send an STD because it will buy you some more time before you have to decide whether you send her an actual invitation. It will allow you to see how the relationship develops over the next couple of months. If you send an STD then you have to invite her.
Post # 4
If you are unsure at this point, I would not send her a STD. Many people do not send Save-The-Date Cards at all. However, when you get closer to the wedding and sending the actual invitations, you can decide if you want to invite her or not.
Post # 5
@eeh2010: and @dance: Thank you! That is a great idea!