- 8 years ago
My Boyfriend or Best Friend of two years and I been having a lot of issues (read old post). We broke it off after my last post. We have been in contact on and off, but mostly off since then. The other day he sent this long text. To sum the text up he was pretty much saying that he wants another chance and wants me to forgive him for everything and he wants to move forward in our relationship. He also said no more BS from him and he knows I deserve better and he’s going to give me better. The last part he said was that I am the one and only for him and that he loves me so much and that he want our relationship how it was before he messed things up (which was amazing we were like two peas in a pod perfect for each other). All he asked for me to do is to give him a real chance and to forgive him for his mistakes and he will do the rest. This is a big step coming from him. It’s like he is finally stepping up to the plate and trying to put in effort when I have been doing it on my own the past few months. I can’t lie and say I don’t love him and don’t want to be with him. But after everything he has done and treated me should I give him one last chance? I feel like he is the one for me. I don’t want to miss out because I’m being stubborn, but I don’t want to be a fool either.
I set him free and he came back to me was it too soon though?
If I do give him a second chance how do we start or rebuild our relationship to being back on good terms like we were before?
Can you ladies give me some advice and maybe share some stories with a BF/SO or DH?