Should I tell?

posted 3 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 31
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

itsmrsc :  What was her reaction? I can’t believe your sister would react as bad as that to find out her sister is bringing a new life into the world, regardless of the wedding! 

I hope you’re okay after taking that from her! 

Post # 32
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87 posts
Worker bee

itsmrsc :  This is really selfish of your sister!! Your babies health is the most important so you will have to try to predict if the stress of keeping it a secret, not drinking, ect is going to be harder for you or the stress of her being mad at you for not planning around her ONE day out of 365 days of the year (this is teasing). Brides be crazy man. 🙂 My friend had this happen when her friend was really mad she was pregnant for the Bachelorette party. 

Post # 33
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40 posts
Newbee

How did she react? It couldn’t have been THAT bad, could it? 🙁 

Post # 34
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356 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Congrats on the baby, glad that the happiness of this new little one is helping deal with her wrath. It’s a bummer she couldnt see past herself/ her wedding to celebrate that she will have a new niece or nephew coming. 

Post # 35
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2332 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I was completely showing at 8 weeks and in maternity jeans by week 10. 

You gotta tell her. And to be honest? You SHOULD tell! If that is what you want!!!!!! Who cares if she gets butthurt? Who is she to dictate when you and your husband decide to start a family?????? What’s next? You can’t get pregnant because she is pregnant and she doesn’t want you to steal her thunder at her baby shower? That’s ridiculous.

My SIL was a week away from her due date at our wedding. If our guests gave her any attention, then awesome! Who cares??? 

Ugh let us know if you told her and what she said! 😀

Congratulations by the way!!!!! You are in for the ride of your life!!! (fellow preggo Bee!)

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