- 1 year ago
willowtree85 : Please do yourself and your childred a huge favor and leave!!! My mom was a sahm to 3 kids, and THANK GOD she left my dad when he cheated. I hated being in that house, and cannot even image how many problems I would have now if I had to stay there. I think my dad has been married at least 3 times now, and is a completely miserable, selfish human (while my mom is literally an angel and my best friend). I was 8 when my mom left, she found a job as a receptionist, and thankfully my grandparents were able to help some. My dad was ordered to pay childsupport, but fled the state and it took 13 years before he paid my mom. My mom also got a second job and did whatever she could to support us. Sure, things got hard sometimes, but we were better off for it. It helped me learn the value of hard work and I 100% believe I am better off for it today. Yes, it might be scary at first, but you would be doing your children and YOURSELF a huge favor in the long run. You dont deserve to live like this.