should i tell her?

posted 11 months ago in The Lounge
Post # 62
1317 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

DeniseSecunda :  But for a friend to actually be jealous of their friends relationship with their own sister is very weird to me. Like its her sister of course they would be close why would any sane friend be jealous or expect that their relationship would be equal to that of a sister?

Post # 63
6255 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

alfalfasprout10518 :  I bet she was doing a bad job of listening in on your conversation and was responding to what she thought she heard and not what you said. 

Post # 64
2434 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

MeiFrancis :  that’s my thought. Or she was actually making an exclamation that was referring to the separate conversation she was having & the OP thought she was interjecting into her conversation. 

Post # 65
5826 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

You sound so dramatic getting upset about this. Why would you even tell your sister that her friend called you her cousin? Seriously who cares? It doesn’t even make any sense. 

Post # 66
1509 posts
Bumble bee

You updated to say it’s not a big deal, but yet you took the time to post about it. And in the OP dramatically said her comment was offensive and “downgrading” (degrading?).

Idk I don’t get why this is occupying your headspace. Sounds like you just don’t like the girl 

Post # 68
408 posts
Helper bee

Tell your sister what?

Post # 69
2302 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

alfalfasprout10518 :  Do you think your sister even wants to stay that close to Amy? I just find it super, super weird that she would go out of her way to exclude Amy from her party on the basis that she just had a baby. Sounds like Amy would rather walk naked through Time Square and then wrestle a crocodile than miss your sister’s party. Do you think she’s maybe finding Amy’s attention a bit stifling? If so, it may not come up that much anymore that you have to endure’s Amy company.


Did you end up clarifying to that guy that you were indeed a sister, not a cousin?

Post # 71
3500 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2021

Ok, yes it was a weird comment… But it’s honestly just as weird that something so silly would continue to bother you days later. 

Besides, considering it was one off hand comment that came out when you are having two separate conversations, it is entirely possible that she misheard something and responded according to what she thought she heard rather than what uyo actually said. Who the fuck knows or cares. 

Post # 72
480 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

alfalfasprout10518 :  OP you’re not wrong for feeling weird about it. It was a very bizzare thing she said and it seems as if she is acting some off way to you for whatever reason.  Don’t let other bees who are telling you its something silly to have on  your mind get you down because as you said people post dumb sh*t on here all the time so at the end of the day, it’s something on your mind and you asked a question. Nothing wrong with it. Since it has been days later I say leave it but if you and your sister are talking and it works into the convo then sure bring it up no biggie. 

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