(Closed) Should I tell him?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
339 posts
Helper bee

I think it definitely sounds like he has a ring for you!!! Super exciting! I wouldn’t sent anything in case you make him feel unsure about what he has gotten you.  If you really trust his taste just enjoy your time and make sure your nails are pretty πŸ™‚

Post # 4
1500 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I think I would have sent it a long time ago! Wait…I have actually. To my SO. Lol

It’s a tough call whether you should send it 3 weeks out. He said you can if you want to, so it couldn’t hurt. Maybe if he’s trying to decide b/w two rings, knowing what you like would help the decision. Then again if he’s proposing in 3 weeks he may already have it made or sized or whatever.

I think I’d send it anyway and just say “Just thought I’d show you a few rings I saw that I liked, but I’ll be happy with whatever you get me!”

Post # 6
2756 posts
Sugar bee

Yep, sounds like he’s got the ring picked out already πŸ™‚ I’d just wait and be patient because if he knows and loves you, he’ll probably pick something amazing and beautiful you’ll just love!

Post # 9
4693 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Ooh it sounds like he has a ring already! I wouldn’t send it because I wouldn’t want him to start doubting his choice.

Post # 10
750 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Yes, get a gel manicure NOW! I knew my fiance was going to propose on a trip we took – just a serious hunch – and I got a gel manicure the day before we left. Thank goodness! He DID propose and I had awesome looking nails for three weeks before any polish chipped. Perfect timing for showing off whatever lovely shiny thing he’s picked for you.

By The Way, he picked my ring on his own and did an amazing job. I get so many compliments.

Good luck!

Post # 11
903 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MissBoPeep:  Totally agree with you. I had no idea that my Fiance was planning to propose when he did, or that he’d picked out a ring. When I would see rings, I’d be like, “Oh, that one is pretty!” After he proposed he said he’d started getting worried because the rings I was pointing out were different than the one he’d already bought, but I LOVE the one I got and I LOOOVE that he picked it out himself!

So moral of the story is, if you think he might have bought one already, try not to make him nervous or doubtful like I apparently did πŸ™‚

Post # 12
823 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

This sounds really promising! I wouldn’t send any pictures, just because if the style if different from a ring he has already picked out, he might start doubting his decision. Don’t take down his confidence! I would just wait and see what happens! I have my fingers crossed that he will propose to you in Hawaii!! That would be incredible. πŸ™‚

Post # 13
811 posts
Busy bee

@HopefulInLove:  I agree, I think he either has a ring already or knows exactly what one he’s getting you. Maybe he’s asked one of your friends for advice πŸ™‚

Post # 15
955 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@sweetcrackers:  I totally agree…get that manicure STAT! YAY! CONGRATS!

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