(Closed) Should I tell my friend about this?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I know you are her friend, but I don’t think you should be involved in trying to interpret his facebook comments. She should not have even asked you to be a spy in the first place. That is just too much weight to be carrying around on your shoulders. Unless something is painfully obvious, I wouldn’t bring it up.

Post # 5
Member
3081 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I mean I totally think that’s suspicious, but rather than asking you to spy and you reporting back to her, maybe you could just let her take a look for herself? 

Post # 6
Member
9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I would simply say “I really don’t feel comfortable getting involved with what’s going on with you guys.” She’s putting you in a terrible position in the name of being a friend.

Post # 7
Member
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@SouthernGirl:  I understand, it is really unfair of her to put you in that situation. I wouldn’t encourage it, just say you didn’t see anything that you would consider flirting or that you havn’t had a chance to really be on facebook lately. (If you are wanting to go the indirect route) Eventually she might stop asking you, hopefully…

The comments you posted seemed innocent enough (seems mainly like he is being the flirty one rather then she), but he could be on his best behavior since he knows friends will say something if they see anything.  But anyway, just leave it alone and try really hard not to look at his wall or hide him.

Post # 10
Member
1280 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

SouthernGirl Glad you didn’t have to make that decision, but sad for your friend…he sounds like a major loser anyways….I know she’s hurting right now, but in the long run it will be the best thing for her….just keep being a good friend to her.

The topic ‘Should I tell my friend about this?’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors