- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Ok so my BFs cousin has ruined my surprise and I am so upset because I have been patiently waiting for a proposal. We have been together for many years and have children together. Iniatially didn’t want to be married we both love each other and our children very much and felt that it was just a piece of paper. However, in recent years we have been both been discussing marriage. I knew that he was going to propose because his bestfreind spilled the beans that he was going to this past summer that ruined it didn’ t happen. Now yet again someone spills the beans. She calls me up and asks me if I sent her a picture of a ring or if he sent me a pic of a ring. I was totally confused. Instead of her just trying to clean it up she goes on to say its a pic of an engagement ring did you send it or id he? I’m not sure what she was thinking if she was not sure who sent it why wouldn’t she just not say anything at all? She then calls me back and says to me please don’ t say anything because he will be so upset. To make matters worse when I told my friend about what happened she goes on to say how hard he has been trying to put together the perfect proposal and trying to make it really special for me. I know that he will be upset if he knows that i know should I just try to be surprised and not say anything. I am so upset that I know because I wanted it to be special too. How will I act suprised when it happens which will be very soon I think because my birthday is this week and he has been insisting on this dinner and not at his fav restaurant that he always wants to go out to.