(Closed) Should I write a letter to my FMIL..

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
1749 posts
Bumble bee

@jmcclen1: I think its a great idea. Could you give it to her at the rehearsal dinner?

Post # 5
1749 posts
Bumble bee

@jmcclen1: Yes, I agree it will be a special private moment. Maybe the rehearsal and wedding will be too busy. Can you do it the morning before the wedding or prior to the wedding events. Wedding days seem so busy.

Post # 6
4046 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I probably wouldn’t do it at the wedding or the rehearsel if there is going to be much crying involved. If you are going on a honeymoon, perhaps when you get back you can take her to lunch or find a private moment to express your thanks.

Post # 7
46597 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would have it delivered along woth her corsage. The last thing you need to be doing is getting red , swollen eyes right before the wedding.

Post # 8
7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Could you take her out for tea or lunch some time the week of the wedding?  That way it could be a special you/her moment?  

Post # 9
2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

That’s such a lovely, lovely idea. I’d give it to her when you’re not there. Leave it for her to open the morning of the wedding.

Sounds like she’s lucky to have you as a FDIL too!

Post # 10
693 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I, too have been blessed with super, super Future In-Laws. My Future Mother-In-Law, and her two sisters have all been so welcoming to my daughter and I. (I’m 33, she’s 7) My family is the same as always..blahh…I thought about writing each of them a letter and mailing it while they are in FL with us on our DW! I thought it would be nice for them to arrive home to a sappy card/letter. I know I’ll be too emotional to say it at the wedding. Congrats for having such loving FILs!

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