(Closed) Should I…remind him?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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793 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

For right now I think I would wait. I agree that July is not that far away but. You still have the rest of April and May and June. I think by early or middle of june he still hasn’t proposed then I would remind him. I mean you could remind him kinda now if you want. Maybe look at a bridal magazine infront of him and lay it down with a ring page opened, and go get a drink or something, haha I don’t know. I’m just saying I would wait a little longer.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Oh no, I would definately wait.  At least wait a few weeks before the move date.  I’m pretty sure your SO is thinking about it, remembers it, and is trying to find the perfect time and moment to do it.  By you bringing it back up, it tends to bring negative things up, I don’t know why.  I guess because my SO wants the whole element of suprise, and I guess is hoping I will forget about it so when he does propose, I’ll be thrown off.  I know it’s hard to not bring it up since it’s on your mind 24/7, but I’m pretty sure he will keep  to his promise. 

 

What if you brought it up, lets just say on a friday, and he was planning to do it that saturdady?  I’m  sure he would be pretty dissappointed and may end up not doing it that weekend after all.  I dunno.  That is just my opinion.

Post # 5
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1194 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Leave it alone!  Don’t say anything.  If you had a conversation about it and agreed to a plan, then trust that he’s going to remember.  Lots can happen in the next 2 and a half months.  Try to relax.

Post # 6
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I would not say anything.  He might be planning something and not bringing it up because he wants it to be a suprise.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

NO!

Post # 8
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1602 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i agree that you should leave it be for now. maybe give yourself a date and say if he hasn’t proposed by then bring it up again, but make sure to give him the benefit of the doubt, and believe that he will do it.

Post # 9
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603 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Keep those lips zipped (for now) 🙂

Post # 10
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1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Well… I hope he’s not planning on getting a ring made to order, or anything custom, because unless you’re going to walk into a jewelry store and pick one out that they happen to have in stock in your size, it can take weeks (sometimes even a couple months!) to be made for you! This is what I am worried about myself, actually… 🙁 This gives him like only the next month or so to save up.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Yikes. That’s a lot of stress. Well then dear I suppose I vote to hold off on bringing it up for a while… Trying to give myself the same advice!! Lol 🙂

Post # 14
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2309 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Wait a little while, in the mean time I think you could drop little hints, like seeming less than enthusiastic when the topic of moving comes about. Maybe he’ll take time to examine why and get his act together if he isn’t already up to something.Laughing

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

don’t say anything (For now!)

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