- 4 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
I haven’t posted in a while since I have been so busy with buying a new house (yay) and wedding planning on top of that. Since my wedding is creeping up VERY quickly I need some advice with something I have started thinking about recently!
So here it is: I have both a MatronOH and MaidOH because I couldn’t pick one. My MatronOH and I used to be super close and we were best friends, until she introduced me to her brother (my fiance) and now we have grown apart, especially since I moved ten hours away from her to be with her brother. Not to mention I have changed a little and become a lot more logical and less emotional so I don’t feel we get along as well anymore. I was the MaidOH in her wedding a few years back too.
My MaidOH is my best friend- we are super close (even though we live far apart- I also moved away from her when I moved) and I talk to her about everything! I know I will be her MaidOH whenever she gets married too (she’s not engaged or anything though.)
I have no idea who should 1. Stand next to me at the alter? 2.Sit next to me at dinner? 3. Sign my marriage certificate? I was thinking that whoever stood next to me at the alter could switch with the other to sit next to me at dinner but then I forgot about the signing of the marriage certificate part! I am by far closer to my Maid of Honor, but my Matron gets offended easily and is going to be my sister-in-law…. HELP PLEASE!
Thank you Bees 🙂