Post # 1
We’re flying to Indiana for a bridal shower my mom and maid of honor are throwing me. It will be at a restaraunt and will mainly be my mom’s coworkers and some aunts/cousins. I plan for my Fiance to be there at least at the beginning to meet & greet but should he stay for the whole thing? What have your guys done?
Post # 3
I’ve been to several showers recently where the groom comes to open gifts. I think it’s nice. My Fiance is planning on coming at the end for a few minutes to say hello and thanks.
Post # 4
mine is also coming at the end. maybe in time for gifts as well, definitely in time to thank people for coming and help load stuff in the cars 🙂
Post # 5
I would think your Fiance only needs to be there either at the beginning or come by at the end to meet and thank people and help transport gifts. I honestly wouldnt put him though staying through the whole shower if its no co-ed. My Fiance didnt come by the shower, no one missed him and he was happy not to have to come 🙂
Post # 6
mine was at a restaurant. my dad wanted to eat there too so he got a table in the main room for some guys (some friends, my husband, my fil and bil) and the girls had a private room. the boys ended up coming into our room to see what was going on the whole time, which i was fine with. we already discusssed that when we have a baby shower it’s going to be coed.
Post # 7
@artbee: That’s a good idea! I’ll run this past him & my dad!
Post # 9
It’s normal for the FIs in my family to go to the bridal shower to greet everyone and open gifts. I’m sure they feel a little out of place with all the women, but the gifts are for them too!
Post # 10
I have never been to a bridal shower where a man attended. Usually those events are for women it seems.