(Closed) Should My Fiance Help…

posted 8 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Let him help pick?
    Yes : (59 votes)
    67 %
    No : (29 votes)
    33 %
  • Post # 3
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    139 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    If he’s wililng to help, I say go for it!

    Post # 4
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I said dont let him help, but thats just my personal preference. I know that my Fiance would much rather see me at the end result all done up and be surprised as opposed to see the dress before Im actually wearing it. Regardless of what the dress is for

    Post # 5
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I think it’s sweet he wants to help pick it out 🙂  I say let him help!  He’s already going to be surprised by your first dress… and even if he helps pick out the second dress, it’s going to look totally different once you’re all done up with hair and makeup.

    Post # 6
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    1385 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    It’s sweet of him to help, but yes he would probably need to see the other one, to know if the other dress is too similar or not. :o)

    But it’s really an individual’s preference re: their FH seeing their ceremony dress.

    Post # 8
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    I say if he wants to help, let him! Not all guys would even be interested in helping. My Fiance and I shopped for my wedding gown together and so far it’s his favorite part of the wedding planning, and mine, too.  If you care about his not knowing what you look like, you’ve got your dress #1 for that, and for dress #2, you can share that experience together.  How perfect!

    Post # 10
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    3613 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Sure, if he wants to help definitely go for it! You already have one dress to surprise him, it’s nice that he wants to have an input on your second one.

    Post # 11
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    1075 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I’ve asked him what he would like to see me in and will put that into consideration, but as far as having him there with me, eh…i’d like to keep the dress a suprise.

    Post # 12
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Whoops, my bad, I missread your thread.

     

    For the second/reception dress…….HECK YA! That’s some great bonding moments!Laughing

    Post # 13
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    For a second dress? Sure!

    Post # 15
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I voted yes let him have his opinion on what to wear. It’s not actually the wedding dress you are wearing to the ceremony, but then again who really believes in silly wedding day superstitions anyway?

    Post # 16
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    491 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    if you’re ok with it then let him help, but i will NEVER understand girls who bring their fiance along for dress shopping!  one of the big, special moments of the day is when you and he see each other for the first time all done up!  especially him seeing you in a wedding dress, that’s a big deal… i wouldn’t let him see it.  it would just make it like “oh hey honey, nice to see you today.  you look nice in that dress i’ve seen you in before”  you know?  It’s gotta be “wow!  there’s my soon-to-be wife in a wedding dress!  that’s something I haven’t seen before!”  I know he will be surprised with your ceremony dress so your situation isn’t quite the same as what i;m talking about but seriously ladies, he should be surprised! 🙂

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