(Closed) Should my fiances sister in law be in the wedding party?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Do you want her in the bridal party? Is the decision either way worth any fallout? 

Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I tend to be of the opinion that your bridal party should be people you’re close to, not people you’re feeling like you should ask because it’s polite. IMO if someone is asked to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man that isn’t close to the bride, they probably know it’s just to be polite or think you’re just wanting more props to dress up. 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

BridetoBee2017:  I am not having FI’s Sister in law in my bridal party but I am having FI’s half brother’s cousin in it. Really it’s about people you are close to. FI’s Sister inlaw causes drama where as FI’s Brother’s cousin has been in our camp the whole time and has done nothing but encourage us. I only want peopl who have supporte our relationship from the beginning and people that I am close to. I have 6 BMS in total and two are my MOHs. Is my FI’s Sister in law in the party nope. I would only have your nearest and dearest!

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