SHOULD MY SON INVITE MY GF TO HIS WEDDING?

posted 10 months ago in Guests
Post # 62
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101 posts
Blushing bee

“As a result of this,  my son and I have become extremely close”

That makes no sense. Your son’s behavior and your inability to talk about this with him does not show you two are close.

Post # 64
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47197 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

weddingpop :  Why do you contiue to make excuses for your son’s bad behavior? He treats you the way he does, because you allow it. Relationships of between 1-5 years are pretty normal.

Buck up. Tell him you will be bringing your girlfriend to the wedding. End of story.

Post # 65
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146 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

Just don’t bring her. Why cause problems? It’s his wedding, not yours, &&& he doesn’t want her there.

She’s just some random chick as far as i see it. Not to mention, you are dismissive attitude about your past women and how you treat them is probably spilling over into his ideals about your particular choice in women as well… “Hmm… dad treats these women like revolving door garbage, so they must not be worth anything, so why tf would I wants these chicks at my WEDDING?!”

Post # 66
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2442 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: NJ

weddingpop :  Wow has he ever got you by the gonads! How old was he the last time the 2 of you were in therapy, talking about how wounded this tiny guy is by Dad’s love life?

Sonny Boy is old enough to GET OVER IT! If I was your girlfriend and you caved in to his cranky tantrum about bringing me as your date to his wedding, I would kick your ass to the curb!

Post # 67
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2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I’m on the son’s side on this. Leave gf at home. It has nothing to do with male genitals as some bees weirdly describe, but rather the fact that your revolving door of girlfriends doesn’t inspire your son to invite this woman to his wedding. His wedding. He chooses the guests.

Post # 68
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4469 posts
Honey bee

weddingpop :  Or the alternative view about how your son “respects” his mother’s relationship and not yours is that she remarried when he was 2 years old – young enough that he has zero memories of living otherwise and was unable to voice any opposition.  But since you didn’t, he figured out how to manipulate you and use your relationships against you so he could have you all to himself and now he is a 28 year old man-child who is jealous of his dad’s girlfriend and afraid she might take your attention away from him.

Post # 69
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1435 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

Dont let your son judge you. Or run you. He is plain wrong.

 

 

Post # 70
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2442 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: NJ

annabananabee :  You and me are on the same page anna. I would like to see what this Dad looks like, with this conveyor belt of girlfriends going by I am picturing a younger George Clooney.

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