(Closed) Should she be a bridesmaid or MOH

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

If you want her to be Maid/Matron of Honor, then make her Maid/Matron of Honor.  Keep in mind that at 15, her mind isn’t even starting to think about weddings, so while this might be a big deal to you, it won’t be as big a deal to her.

Anyone can be Maid/Matron of Honor, as long as you have a really close relationship with them!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

This is your wedding.  If you want her to be your Maid/Matron of Honor then she should be.  In fact, my Fiance is thinking about having his nephew be his best man, and he’s only 14. 

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Make her your Maid/Matron of Honor 🙂  But seeing that she is 15 and doesn’t have the expense to throw a shower or anything else (but she can help of course) try not to expect too much out of her. I am sure she would be honoured if you asked 🙂

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

If you want to make her your Maid/Matron of Honor do it! She is a young woman and I personally think it is fine.  You may however need to reach out to your bridesmaids and enlist them to plan the bridal shower & bachelorette party.  I think planning those two events are overwhelming, even for a full fledged adult, especially depending on the type of bachelorette party you intend on having. 

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