(Closed) Should we keep the stray cat?

posted 7 years ago in Pets
  • poll: Should we keep the cat?
    Yes, what's one more? : (40 votes)
    83 %
    No way, there are too many pets already. : (8 votes)
    17 %
  • Post # 3
    9482 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I hope you decide to keep her to ensure she gets treated and loved like she deserves.  Poor baby.

    Post # 4
    3254 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Put up a Facebook post asking anyone if they are interested in taking her in. Explain how you just really can’t take her in because of your other pets. I saw someone do this with a dog not too long ago, and there were a gazillion people volunteering to take him!

    Post # 5
    891 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I think bride at the beach’s idea was pretty great. I would understand if you can’t take her in because the amount of pets you already have. But that poor kitty really needs a new home so she can be well taken care of.

    Post # 6
    995 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    Thank you for doing that! I wish everyone was like you. If you can’t keep her please find a great home for her. Shelters are already too full and if you keep her out of there, it leaves a spot open for another kitty. P.S. I need to see her sweet little face! Please post pics.

    Post # 7
    10287 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    At this stage in the game, you have to help her in some way. I know I wouldn’t be able to just kick her out after seeing what bad of shape she was in to begin with. If you can’t keep her, then I would suggest trying to find her a home on craigslist or FB. We got our kitty almost 4 years ago through a “free to good home” ad on CL and he’s lived a spoiled life ever since. If you do opt to go the craigslist route, I would suggest charging a small rehoming fee. If someone can afford to pay you $50 or so, then it would seem that they want the kitty for the right reasons and will hopefully give her a good home. 

    Post # 8
    5984 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Thank you for taking this cat in. I am so sad just htinking of what this cat has been through ๐Ÿ™ If you take her to the shelter there is a large chance she will be uthinized. However, do you have a no kill shelter in your area that you know of? I know tons in the US but none in Canada. You can take her to the shleter and than call the no kill shelter and tell them about her and that you want her to go to the no kill shelter. Take a picture of her and send to them to help them. I am highly involved in this process in the US, feel free to IM me for details. Please do not just drop her off at the shelter she will be uthinized. 

    I do not recommend CL, especially since she is a specific breed they might take her to a kitty milll and she will live an awful life. Please please, if you find her a home make sure you know the person and know she will be taken good care of. 

    It would be amazing if you could keep her but if not please make sure she gets to a wonderful home or no kill shelter. she deserves to atleast have a few years of beingospoiled. poor baby! I am seriously in tears. Thank you for doing what you are doing.

    Post # 9
    995 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    If you are in Ontario, there is a Siamese Rescue Group in the Hamilton area. There is probably one somewhere near you too. It’s listed on the main page under cats…


    Post # 10
    1327 posts
    Bumble bee

    Our cat was a stray, she showed up at our door in the freezing cold of winter, skinny, full of ear mites and just plain grungy. We took her in, turns out she is the coolest cat ever, she loves people and wants nothing to do with outside anymore lol.

    We found her sleeping like this in this doll crib one day afternoon, hilarious.

    We can’t make the decision for you, it is between you and your family. But at least keep her until she is better and then try and find her a new home. ๐Ÿ™‚


    Post # 11
    201 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    First of all, I just want to say thank you for bringing her in in the first place and taking the time to bathe her and paying to take her to the vet! It’s people like you who are really helping to counter-act how cruel other people can be to these poor animals.

    If you have the space for her, then I hope you’ll keep her. If you’re living on your own, then your parents shouldn’t really dictate what you do with your own house anyway, in my opinion. Not trying to lecture or anything- but they don’t really have the place to tell you what pets to have. She sounds like a great cat and it seems like you both like each other already :). Cats aren’t really high maintanence either, so it’s not that bad.  

    If you decide you absolutely can’t keep her, I would try to find a no-kill shelter to bring her to or advertise on pet-finder, cragislist, or facebook. Just make sure as best you can whoever is taking her in is a good person and pet-owner. We had to rehome the dog we had adopted last year because our cat that we already had was extremely upset by him. We looked for months before we found a nice couple who adopted him.  I hope you keep her, though. She sounds so sweet! Good luck. 

    Post # 12
    121 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    You have to keep her! You’ve already saved her life, cared for her, AND dropped money. Plus, she’s probably already formed an attachment. I’m with most of the PPs, if you can find a way to keep her, do it!

    Post # 14
    368 posts
    Helper bee

    If you live or rent form your parents then I don’t think it’s a good idea to take her in. I would find her a good home. If the cat goes to a friend you could probably see her every once and awhile. Good luck! I hope you can keep her but sometimes it just doesn’t work out. I have wanted another cat for awhile, we have two, but none of the apartments in our area will allow 3 cats.

    Post # 16
    9824 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    You know I love my furry friends (and my scaly friend), but if you think it’s too much don’t guilt yourself out. You’ve done a LOT for this cat. I adopted my kitten from CL and he lives like a king!

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