(Closed) Should you be intimate when you co-sleep with your child?

posted 6 years ago in Parenting
  • poll: What do you make of this?
    I don't think there is anything wrong with this : (20 votes)
    8 %
    I think if the baby was in a crib in the room that would make this ok : (118 votes)
    45 %
    This is not ok, period. : (125 votes)
    48 %
  • Post # 3
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I didnt read the article but I think it depends on the babys age and where exactly the baby was when the doing the deed.

    Post # 4
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I voted for only if the baby was in a crib, but there’s an age limit on that.  Not entirely sure what that is, but defintely before they could talk. 

    Post # 5
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Huge difference to me in co-sleeping (meaning in the same room) which is pretty much accepted as a good thing for the first couple months, and bed sharing, which is highly contrivercial on both sides. For me, I can’t imagine having sex in a bed my baby was also sleeping in. The LAST thing I want on my mind is “Oh yeah, let me not squish the baby”. But I also don’t think it is child abuse, just possibly unwise. 

    Post # 6
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Co-sleeping alone makes me shudder…….then throw in “gettin’ it in” with that?!?!?! Oh helllllllllllllllllllll no.

    Post # 7
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 1992

    Gross. No way. Wheel that child out of the room. 

    Post # 9
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I’m pregnant and I don’t even like having sex when baby is kicking and being active in my stomach; I prefer to “do the deed” when he’s asleep and not moving around a lot.

    We plan to co-sleep, but if we want to get frisky, I’m putting the baby in his own bedroom and I’ll go get him after we’re done with “adult time”! Or if he’s asleep and we don’t want to wake him, we’ll go to another room.

    Post # 10
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    750 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I think that if the baby is sleeping in the crib that might be okay, but only for the first few months…not at age 2 like the one in the article.

    Post # 11
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    No thats wrong.  Our children slept in the same room bed as us but we would do the deed in another room in the house.

    Post # 12
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    1352 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    100% not okay, gross.

    Post # 13
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I’d be okay with it if the baby was asleep in the crib, but only up to a certain age…

    Post # 15
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    1101 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    eww. the baby would need to be out of the room for me and Fiance to have sex. yuck. that grosses me out.

    Post # 16
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    691 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @Button:  Coitus Interuptus of another kind!

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