(Closed) Should you do Wedding business with friends??

posted 10 years ago in Flowers
Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper

I’d rather stay totally clear. I know myself and as a consumer I can be very demanding and I won’t want to hold back on any concerns. And heavens forbid if something goes wrong, I wanna go ape shit without holding back (if needed).

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

We took the view that we were using friends only if we wouldn’t be devastated if they totally screwed up.  And even then, if the friend was offering a discount rather than a free service, we would shop around to figure out whether the friend’s “discounted” price was truly better than what we could find elsewhere.

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper

You know, my best friend and I have known each other for 13 years, and we vowed never to live together or mix friendship and money. It just never works!

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@bklynbridetobe: Ditto. If our baker is in an accident while delivering the cake, I’d feel much better requesting a rush cake from their bakery than Aunt Martha. Or if my photos didn’t turn out, how well does taking Uncle Bob to court for the payment you already gave jive with family reunions? I’d much rather have a signed contract covering my behind and no family pressures to consider if something were to go wrong, but maybe that’s just the soon-to-be-lawyer in me. Expect the worst, and get everything in writing 🙂 Hehe.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

The only real “friendors” we are using are ones we have seen the products of before so we aren’t surprised:

– Our DJ- who has not only DJed dances we’ve been too, he’s given us private lessons (and he’s free, being paid with dinner)

– Choreographers- FH has taken lessons from them before and while not 100% style match, they know ours and we know theirs (they also don’t normally do wedding choreography)

– Band- not really friends but familiar with each other

– Venue- they have known FH for years and love him. The organizers are great, and very open to working with our quirks

– Officiant- our only “gamble” as far as vendors go as neither of us have seen him give a sermon in person. I’ve watched videos while he was in seminary and him lead worship services in person (he’s a worship pastor) so we’re not worried. But we’re friends, and FH is a groomsman in his wedding this May.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I never do any kind of business with family or friends.. let alone my wedding.

We have a car that a friend of ours wants to buy. They want to give us more than we could probably sell it to anyone else for… but I don’t want to have something go wrong a few weeks or months after selling it to them and ruin the friendship.

It’s just not worth it in my opinion!

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