(Closed) Shouldn't I be more stressed?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
5187 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

@TwoStatesBride:  If you’re not feeling stressed it’s probably because you’ve done a really good job planning. Be happy!

Post # 4
7643 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@TwoStatesBride:  You sound like I did when I got married. Everyone was stunned when I wasn’t stressing out or being a bridezilla about stuff. I have everything planned out, timeline done, and I was organzied. Even the janitor at the church was like, “You are way too calm of a bride.”

It’s ok not having more to do. If you have everything organzied and you are stress-free definitely don’t try to find more to do becuase then you will stress yourself out. Enjoy being one of the few stress-free brides 🙂

Post # 5
2639 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

@TwoStatesBride:  Our wedding day is still a ways out, but I have been having a similar feeling. I feel like I must be forgetting something, because I am not sufficiently stressed out. Shouldn’t I have a million things on my to-do list?

I guess we’ll just have to revel in the calm before the storm! Though, hopefully the storm won’t come until the hubbub of the day itself

Post # 6
9681 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I think it depends on your personality. My sister is a basket case all the time, so her wedding was no different. I am a calm person and I feel my wedding will be no different. No unnecessary stress for me!

Post # 7
11231 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m the same way and I wasn’t stressed. I had so many offers of “if you need anything…” but I didn’t really take anyone up on it because I just didn’t need to. I’d planned so well that I had time to take care of a couple of emergencies (like I didn’t have enough centerpieces, which I found out the day before the wedding).

Post # 8
3772 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I feel the same way you do. I’m not stressed at all, not nervous, anxious, or anything. Im excited to marry my mister. That’s it. 

I did have a minor stress-session yesterday when a few people wouldn’t tell me who they are bringing as their guests (its in 3 weeks. How do they not know?) But after some “gentle” suggestions from my mom and mister, I figured we’ll just put Name’s Guest on the seating chart. No harm, no foul. No stress. 

Post # 10
2278 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m not stressed per say, just really anxious. I blame my anxiety. Sounds like you’ve got everything under control 🙂

Post # 11
2466 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@TwoStatesBride:  I was exactly the same way….. I was pretty calm up until say…the thursday and then it started to hit me and I started getting overwhelmed. I was super organized (so I thought) and had my excel spreadsheets going, but I will say be prepared for some “moments” at the end of the week lol.

I snapped on my poor Maid/Matron of Honor…. like you everyone was just constantly “how are you doing, how are you feeling…..” i’d be better if everyone would STOP ASKING ME IF IM FINE!!!!!


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