(Closed) Shower etiquette

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
16 posts

I would give the hostesses a small gift each.

Post # 4
1844 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

  I would definitely do a small gift. I’m still trying to figure out what to get mine, so if anybody has any great ideas, I’m all ears!

Post # 5
505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Here is another question regarding shower gift.  When do you present the gift to the hostess?  Do you do it in private?  Or right before you open your own gifts?

Post # 6
1844 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

  I feel like many people do it at the end of the shower, somewhat in private. I attended a shower for my future cousin in February and she gave the gift when most people had left. She included a thank you card to each hostess and some items from Bath and Body Works.

Post # 7
1523 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

How does that work if your shower is a surprise and you don’t know who is going to help throw it?  I have 7 bridesmaids, and I know my Maid/Matron of Honor is in charge, but don’t know for sure if anyone else is helping or even when it is…

Post # 8
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I think that is a nice idea. Something else you can do is write them a hand written note thanking them for all they have done.

Post # 9
13943 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yes, definitely get a gift for whoever hosts your shower, along with a nice card thanking them for their effort!

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