(Closed) Shower Favors – Necessary?

posted 7 years ago in Favors
  • poll: Is it rude not to give favors at a bridal shower?
    yes! : (4 votes)
    17 %
    nah... : (19 votes)
    83 %
  • Post # 3
    46670 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    You don’t need favors ever! Shower, wedding, bachelorette etc etc etc.

    It is not rude if you don’t have them.

    If you do want them, by all means go ahead.

    Post # 5
    218 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I’m undecided, I too don’t know whether to have them or not, sorry no help here

    Post # 6
    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I think they’re unnecessary. Most people forget to even take them home.

    Post # 7
    7173 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    No – it’s not ‘rude’ to not have a favor.

    It would be rude to not have seats or anything to eat or drink… or for the bride to snub the guests.

    If the guests don’t have a party favor to take home, it’s just that – they don’t have a party favor to take home.  It’s not a big deal at all – the shower is the event… not the favor.

    Personally, I thing favors at showers can be a very sweet touch.  I know I’ve appreciated favors at showers that I’ve attended.  I think a little more time and attention typically goes into shower favors.  Conversely, I don’t like wedding favors because usually they are a little more generic since there has to be so many of them.

    Post # 7
    84 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Not rude at all, the are completely unnecessary and honestly a waste of money usually! If you are providing something to eat and drink, that’s enough! 

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