- 12 years ago
- Wedding: May 2009
I know I’ve seen a few posts about this but I can’t seem to locate them right now.
My BM’s are hosting a bridal shower in my hometown. They are asking for a guest list and my mother and I are at odds over this. I included my side of the family and his mom and aunts. There are other people from his side of the family (great aunts, cousins, etc) that are invited to the wedding but I did not include them on the guest list. My mom says that I need to include them all, I disagree. I barely know some of these people and do not want anyone to feel like I am inviting them just because or to get a gift out of it. That’s not what I want at all.
I have asked my Fiance and he’s no help, he says he doesn’t know. His parents have little interest in the wedding. Fiance isn’t close to his parents so I semi understand the lack of interest. I am just grateful that they will be there.
I just don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings by inviting them, but I don’t want to make people feel weird that I don’t know and invite them.