Post # 1
So my Maid/Matron of Honor has already sent out the invites for my bridal shower. All of the invitees are women who I am pretty close with. However, some of my invited co-workers have asked if Bob and Gerry (not real names) are invited. These are two single gay men who I frequently socialize with as if they were my girlfriends and who are both invited to the wedding, but who I did not invite to the shower. Should I have?
Post # 3
@BabaAndBaba101010: Nope, they are still men. I have a few friends that I didn’t invite for that same reason. Now, if you were having a co-ed shower, it’d be a different story.
Post # 4
Do you want to? You dont have to. If your shower is all women and thats the way you want it to be then thats fine! I dont think they would be offended!
Post # 5
I agree with clarebee, if you want them there then invite them! I think maybe it depends on what kind of shower you’re having too, if it’s just food and presents a guy (gay or not) probably wouldn’t feel to akward there!
Post # 6
I guess I wouldn’t mind them being there, it will pretty much be food and gifts, so I don’t think they would feel awkard. I think For simplicity sake, I think it will just stay all women, especially since it is barely over a week away now.