- Mrs. Kiwi
- 14 years ago
- Wedding: November 2007 - Radisson Hotel
My Future Mother-In-Law has told me about a shower (for me) that is being thrown by her daughter (my MOH). The date is supposed to be 9/23. They are inviting my aunt and mom, but they haven’t sent out invites yet. My aunt called saying she doesn’t want to go because she wasn’t really invited. I say, "They haven’t sent any, as far as I know!" My aunt is surprised, and frankly, so am I.
The shower is 11 days away, and from what I’ve heard from my Future Mother-In-Law, the invites haven’t even been bought. I don’t want to be a cow and ask why there aren’t any invites yet, but isn’t 11 days really short notice?
I don’t know what to tell my aunt, or how to broach the topic with the in-laws, since I KNOW this shower is completely a nice gesture on their parts, but I know the date was set over a month ago.I know that it’s none of my business about it, truly. I just don’t want people to wonder why they got an invite a day before the shower!
Any advice or help?