Post # 1
After seeing a couple Bee posts on shower hostess gifts, I really want to do this for my bridesmaids. Although, I have never known anyone to do this. I wonder if it is a regional thing. Did you or are you planning on giving your shower hostesses thank you gifts?
If so, what are your ides?
I love these two:
Miss Lemon: http://www.weddingbee.com/2007/05/08/for-all-your-future-showers/
Miss Latte: http://www.weddingbee.com/2009/06/12/shes-so-lucky-shes-a-star/
Post # 3
I tried to come up with something really thoughtful for the ladies that hosted my shower (MIL’s friends) but couldnt think of anything so I ended up buying each of them a box of See’s candies. I thought it was customary to give a gift to the shower hostesses but they were completely surprised and didnt expect anything!
Post # 4
My Maid/Matron of Honor hosted the shower, and I got her a Wood Wick candle, because they’re her favorite. She was really happy with it. I suggest getting the hostess something you know she likes!
Post # 5
i voted yes it’s customary, although i am not sure if it’s a regional thing or not. i have seen many friends thank their hostess in this way. my cousin, who is my moh, is doing the majority of planning for mine so i am getting her the wedding themed set from philosophy since shes a big fan. i have to pull something smaller together for the others who contribute…
Post # 6
i LOVE what miss latte did! so cute and pretty inexpensive!
Post # 7
Love both of the Miss Bees ideas! So sweet!
Post # 8
Shower gifts are not common where I’m originally from. Although they may be in other social circles that I’ve never been in. I love Miss Lemon’s idea.
Post # 9
My family doesn’t do them, but it could be a cultural thing. I am sure my friends might. Anyway, it doesn’t hurt to give a small gift, right? If you have small budget, do something small. I think it’s more to say thanks than to charm them with your skills.
Post # 10
where im from you just give all your bridesmaid thank you gifts for being in the wedding and write a little note along with it then give it to them sometime before or after the wedding.
Post # 11
I forgot to mention, do you get a shower hostess gift if the hostesses are all your bridesmaids? Does it make a difference?
Post # 12
- Wedding: August 2009 - St. Thomas of Villanova Church & the F.U.E.L. House
Yup, gifts for the hostesses for sure! We’re also gifting to my dad and my sister’s husband, who helped out majorly!
Post # 13
I am lucky enough to have 5 ladies hosting my shower (3 bridesmaids & 2 friends), and I am getting all of them a little something. Nothing too extravagent, but I want to thank them for throwing me a wonderful party! I have gotten separate gifts for the bridesmaids that I will give to them at the rehearsal dinner.