(Closed) Shower Hostesses – Some Invited to Wedding, Some Not… What to do??

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

hmm this one seems tricky.  Does your friend know that you weren’t planning on inviting them?  I think that it really just depends on what expectations *they* have as a group.  If these girls thing they are invited to the wedding and thus want to plan the shower it would be fairly hurtful for them not to be. 

I would probably invite them all or graciously decline the shower b/c it seems awkward.

Post # 4
46404 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

If the shower invitations have already been sent, I don’t think you are under any obligation to invite them to the wedding. She is responsible for inviting them to the shower, not you.

If the shower invitations have not been sent, then I think it depends on social practice in the company where you used to work. I have worked for several employers where it was routine to invite everyone to showers and only those that the bride had a closer relationship with to the wedding. Sometimes work colleagues just like to celebrate with the bride.

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