(Closed) Shower Question

posted 5 years ago in August 2013
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@beeandrashid:  I dont think showers are a surprise by any means. I actually picked the date of my shower with my family and wedding party girls. They are planning it and have asked my opinions on things. No need to act surprised. a shower is “part of the process” – its typical for the bride to know about it.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Yeah I’ve never heard that the bride isn’t supposed to know about the shower, I have heard that it can sometimes be for the bachelorette party though.

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Be prepared to have a shower that day- outfit chosen and ready etc.

If they “surprise” you, act surprised.

If they say “see you at the shower”. no need to act surprised.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

My shower was a surprise, they wouldn’t tell me a thing about it. I kinda knew by process of elimination with dates but I was still surprised when I walked into the room and saw everyone and the decor and everything. So I wouldn’t go out of my way to fake being surprised BUT you might surprise yourself and be a little Wow over everyone and the details. Don’t stress it, just be yourself and act natural.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m actually helping to plan mine because I don’t want my mother and my sister to be too stressed. (they don’t always get along)

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