- 3 months ago
- Wedding: October 2019 - -
Hi everyone! My Maid/Matron of Honor mailed my bridal shower invitations a couple of weeks ago and my shower is in a little over two months (July). I’ve had two invitees send gifts to my house this week with notes that they are sorry they are unable to attend the shower, which of course is understandable and it’s so nice of them to send us gifts – I totally wasn’t expecting this, or expecting this far in advance. So I’m wondering, should I still wait to write thank you cards to these people until after the shower or should I send a thank you now since they aren’t attending? It feels like such a long time to not say anything if I wait until after with all the rest of the thank yous. I’m also going to be seeing at least one of the women at another shower in a few weeks so I don’t want to seem ungrateful or awkward! Thanks for your thoughts!