(Closed) Shower Thank You Note Dilemma

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

Send them out right away. All will be well :). most people are reasonable and understanding. 

Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

nellebelle6:  Write them and send them now. It would be lazy and rude to wait and send them along with the wedding gift thank-you notes.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

Now Now Now better late than never!!!!! 🙂 People will understand you are busy and have lots going on things get forgotten.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

Yep. Do it now. Not one day later. 

Post # 6
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Worker bee

If it makes you feel better, I didn’t receive a thank you note from the couple whose bridal shower and wedding that I attended, where I provided them both with a generous gift. It’s almost a year later and still nothing, so I’ve written it off. If you’re thinking about this and are feeling concerned, then you’re already miles ahead in fixing the situation and making your guests feel appreciated! People will still be happy to receive the cards, even a month or two later 🙂

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

Send them immediately. You’ll be fine. Just don’t wait.

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper

Send them now. Thank yous are due as you receive gifts. Waiting to do all at once is bad advice, and rude. People went out of their way to buy you a gift and it only takes a few moments to write a  note. 

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Send them now.  Like, today. 

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m not sure why it would be any better to wait another month to send them and then be lazy by sending one note for two gifts.

Write them today and get them out ASAP.

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