(Closed) Shower thank you notes – send before wedding?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
514 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@aggie2010:  I really think that you should get them done ASAP. It only took me maybe a few hours to do mine and it felt really good to get them done.

Post # 4
46672 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It never takes as long as you think it will to write your notes. After the wedding, you will be happy that you did them before the wedding.

Post # 5
1755 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I’d write them and send them.  It looks best when you’re prompt about thank yous and you’ll have more to write and send after the wedding for all the wedding gifts you’ll receive.

Post # 6
1696 posts
Bumble bee

The etiquette “gold standard” for sending thank-you notes, is to send them before you go to bed on the day that you got the gift. It makes no difference whether it is a shower gift, a wedding gift, a birthday gift or a Christmas gift or an out-of-the-clear-blue-sky gift. 

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