- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
I’m on the fence about who to invite to my bridal shower. I have about 20 definites (my close freinds and family members, FI’s mom,sister and grandma) But I have another 15 maybes (FI’s close female cousins, aunts, female friends and wives of his good friends (who are also my friends)
I’d like to invite everyone and I think it would be nice to invite all the ladies in his life too, but I dont want the cost to get out of hand. My sister/MOH is paying for the whole thing since I only have 2 bridesmaids (FSIL is the other) MOH chose a venue that is $35+ per person, so I dont want the cost to get out of hand. She can afford it but I would still feel bad about it. I suggested a less expensive venue but she likes that venue and is pretty stubborn.
What would you do? Who are you inviting and is it imporant to invite FI’s female friends/ cousins/aunts etc????? Would it be rude not to invite them?