- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
This is my 2nd wedding/ FI’s 1st. While we were hanging out a little while ago 2 of my BM’s brought up having a shower and what I wanted to do. But I was really upset over some drama with my Future Father-In-Law that had happened an hour or two before, so we never really discussed it.
Here is what is in my head, if you can muddle thru it, I would love some opinions.
a: we live in MA, our wedding is in SC
b: I personally don’t have many friends/family that I have invited to the wedding. So, I really don’t know who would come.
c: Most people invited are FI’s family/friends. I don’t know if Future Mother-In-Law would come up from SC because of her job, and I don’t know if they would come if she isn’t coming.
d: other people are from all over, I don’t know if they would really travel.
e: I don’t want them to put in a lot of work/money and have no one show up.
We all live in tiny apartments so none of us would be able to do it in our house. I really don’t want to inconvenience them. I really don’t know what to do….