(Closed) Shower/Bachelorette drama, advice needed

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
46641 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would invite them both. They are adults and can make their own decision about whether or not they attend.

As a  hostess I would be prepared to intervene “tout suite” if things got at all testy between the two of them. I would ask both of them to leave the room with me and make it clear that if they could not be civil to each other, they should leave now.

Post # 4
3885 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I would invite both and let them sort it. 

Post # 5
3229 posts
Sugar bee

Invite them both and make sure you bring the popcorn. I am just kidding. Hope for passive aggressive awkwardness. 

Post # 6
2363 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

I dont think there is anyway that you can get around inviting both of them. But, I would reach out to Norah. Let her know how much the bride values her friendship, and let her know that you are sympathetic to what she has been through. You cant really take sides, but you can at least tell her how much you guys want her there and that you understand if she cant come, and you guys will do what you can to keep her comfortable. You could get lucky and sharon might not be able to come?

Post # 7
2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

invite both and hope they act civilly

Post # 8
3120 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@MangoSong:  Invite them both.  It will only be adding to the drama to cut anything.  It’s their responsibility to be adults.

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