(Closed) Shower/Wedding Gift Thank You Notes

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: When to send notes?

    Send thank you notes before the events, as gifts arrive, combining if received same day

    Send thank you notes before the events, keeping each TY separate, even if received simultaneously

    Send thank you notes after, combining events (longer notes, trees saved)

    Send thank you notes after, keeping separate TYs for each event

  • Post # 2
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

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    fidgets :  I was taught to send thank you notes as the gifts arrive. It not only reassures the sender that the gift has arrived, it has a fringe benefit of reducing your workload after the wedding.

    Shower thank you notes are usually on less formal stationery, but honestly, I don’t think anyone would object to being thanked for both gifts on one note. Given that so many couples choose not to send thank-you notes at all, someone criticizing your combining the notes would be incredibly inflexible.

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