(Closed) Showing cleavage in wedding dress – what are your thoughts?

posted 5 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Would you show cleavage in wedding dress?
    Absolutely - if you've got it, flaunt it! : (46 votes)
    13 %
    No - it's not appropriate for a wedding : (67 votes)
    19 %
    Maybe - so long as its tasteful : (239 votes)
    68 %
  • Post # 3
    2759 posts
    Sugar bee

    I think to each her own. If you want to show cleavage, go right ahead. If you want to wear a high-necked gown, do that as well.

    Post # 4
    526 posts
    Busy bee

    my strapless sweetheart neckline dress showed a bit more than I originally intended (definitely not vulgar, but I’m a rather conservative dresser) because it would slip down when I moved too much, but my chest is large and I like it, and so does Darling Husband, so I wasn’t going to try and hide it. 


    One other thing, pay attention to friends or family who discourage it, in my experience, it was usually my less well endowed friend/family that tried to make me reconsider and I now realize it was jealousy.

    Post # 5
    9550 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I’ll have cleavage in my wedding dress!!! Not a lot, but it will be there. For me, I was okay with this because the rest of the dress is very covered and modest, ie chest, shoulders and back all covered, except the v cut and it’s a full skirt. I generally think that you should get 1 area to be daring and risque without looking trashy. It’s when you add multiple things (strapless, form fitted bottom, cleavage, backless, short, etc.) that it can get trashy. But that’s me!

    Post # 6
    8487 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    As long as you’re not wearing something like these,


    then I dont see any problem with a bit of cleavage. 


    For instance, I think this is beautiful and perfectly acceptable.

    Post # 7
    7403 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Show it if you got it, but tastefully.

    Post # 8
    6359 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I feel like it’s not a “sexy” occasion. For me it would take away from the elegance and formality of the occasion.

    Post # 9
    9688 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I showed some but I’m a C cup so not too huge.  I was happy with how it looked and it’s as much as I usually show every day anyway.



    Post # 10
    8424 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012






    @allyfally:  OMG WOW is that for real??? Those first 2 are crazy!!

     I found one more…..can you say nip slip? LOL

    This is CRAZY…..





    @linnylou_88:  OP I say as long as its tasteful!! Not like this pic above….LOL

















    Post # 11
    11234 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    A little is fine, a lot is not appropriate.

    Post # 12
    278 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    My dress is V-neck and will show some cleavage, but I’m making sure it won’t be TOO low cut. I am fairly large busted and I don’t want to be falling out all night!


    @allyfally:  Agreed entirely!!


    Post # 13
    2966 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @linnylou_88:  Call me old fashioned, but I think certain body parts should only be showed at the beach and/or bedroom. 


    I would be terrified to look at my wedding pictures years from now and think “Wow! What was I thinking??”. Not to mention that I try to desexualize myself as much as I can when I’m around my parents. My father does not need to see what I got going on!


    Personally I wouldn’t feel comfortable either way – what with dancing, and bending to kiss people and drinking…that’s a mess waiting to happen. 


    Post # 15
    8487 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @weddingbound:  The first one is a girl from a TV show (or so I’ve heard) but I dont know about the second one. 

    Maybe that beach one was a private wedding? I hope. 

    Post # 16
    2305 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2016

    I’ve got boobs and no matter what, I won’t be able to hide them. I don’t think the fact I have boobs will take away from the elegance or formailty of my wedding. I won’t be wearing nipple tassles, but I won’t be going out of my way to hide them in a turtle neck

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