(Closed) Shut it Up PACT (SIUP) December edition

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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Newbee

Hello,

 

UK Bee here! 

 

Sounds like a great plan plan, especially around Christmas when everybody and their dog are getting engaged!

 

My OH keeps making comments about Christmas engagements being tacky and overdone, does he really think that or is he trying to put me off the scent?  Who knows! Haha

Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969 - City, State

Count me in! I ask too many questions sometimes. Case in point: tongue-out

SO is proposing this month so I will shut up and not badger him about the details in case I ruin his surprise! 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

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kissthesunkisstherain :  I hope its in your cake at a fancy restaurant!! I can’t think of why else he would ask this! Keep us updated 🙂 and try not to swallow it if I’m right 😉 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969 - City, State

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sapphire27 :  Haha! He did slip up recently so I already knew some restaurant is part of the plan. 🙂 I highly doubt he will propose at a restaurant. Guessing he will bring me there after he proposes to celebrate! 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969 - City, State

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becks90 :  Hope you feel better in the morning! Their question was not ill-intentioned but maybe you were upset because they were genuinely concerned? 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969 - City, State

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becks90 :  He prompted it though so that does not count! tongue-out

 

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969 - City, State

Bees! SO just told me to pack my bag. We are flying off to Bali this Fri morning! 

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969 - City, State

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stillnothing :  Friday! Haha! SO said he was planning to reveal the surprise tomorrow, but he told me as soon as he came back from work. Now I have extra time to think about what to pack! 

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2017

My situation is a little unusual. Technically we’re already engaged, but it’s currently a secret. We agreed to get married, picked a date, and have started researching and booking vendors. But he really wants to do a formal propsal with a ring, so I have to wait for that to start telling people! He says the proposal is his “thing” and he wants control over how and when it happens.

I’m having a lot of trouble not bugging him about it, just because I know how much he procrastinates and just generally doesn’t have a plan and that makes me so tense and anxious lol. I’ve been told a timeline of early January, so I’m hoping NYE, but trying not to get my hopes up. I’d love an x-mas proposal  (so would my mom, lol) but I’m 99.9% sure that’s not going to happen.

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