(Closed) Sick and tired of invitations and RSVPs

posted 6 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
1310 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I’m so sorry 🙁 That sounds really tough. But the end is coming soon after that you’ll just get to bask in newlywed bliss!!!! 🙂

Post # 4
1888 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@luv2shop08:  I’m so sorry that this is causing you such stress! My Future Mother-In-Law is the same way… we were assembling invites today to send out and she called Fiance to tell him that she needed to add 2 more couples to the invite list. He told her absolutely no (we have a strict “If we don’t know them, they aren’t invited” policy), and she called us dictators, haha. I anticipate that this will continue through the day of the wedding, when I’m betting any amount of money that she won’t enforce our no-kids rule. We’ve just found that being very firm and unwavering was the only way to get through to her.

Sending you hugs and good thoughts! In just 3 weeks you’ll get to marry the love of your life and it won’t matter that there were extra people there. I know it’s hard, but try to think of that! 

Post # 5
451 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Can you get your fiance to talk to his mother?  I think she is totally out of line but it seems like something he should handle in terms of talking to her.  Of course you could just keep your mouth shut (which helps a lot with in-law problems! :-)) but this is a big issues and I feel like I could see her taking a mile after you’ve given an inch with many things to come in the future!

Post # 6
201 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Who is paying for your wedding? If she is… you may have to let her have her say and way, unfortunately. If she isn’t paying, put your foot down, but nicely… she’s your Future Mother-In-Law afterall. 🙂

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