(Closed) Sick BM, I’m just sad…

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Aw, that sucks for both of you. The best thing you can do for your friend is to just be supportive of what she needs right now. I don’t know what her triggers are for flare ups, but for me, stress is a killer. If I get too stressed, I’m bound to get a flare. So if stress is a trigger for her (and it probably is), please try to do a little something to ease her mind right now. She is probably feeling just as bad about the situation as you, if not more. If you can do a little something to let her know that you just want her to be happy and healthy, and help her feel less stressed about feeling well in time for your wedding, it may help. At the very least, it will let your friend know that you love and support her and want her to be well above all else.

Good luck, and I hope everyone is happy, healthy, and ready to go on your wedding day!

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

Im sorry for both of you!

I hope she gets better soon and that she can be a part of your day!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m sorry she’s sick! Sending her edible arrangements was really sweet! I hope she gets better soon!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@funkyone8604: Awesome, I bet she’ll love it!

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

D’aw.  I hope she feels better in time.  Crossing my fingers for you!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Im deling with something similar so I know how you feel.  FI’s best friend, one of our groomsmen, was electrecuted at work and undergoing massive treatments and may not make our wedding either.  Im more upset at the fact he is going thru this and wont be there to share our day than the factthat we dont have a groomsmen.  I told him I dont care if he’s in sneakers and sweats, if he feels up to being there I want him there…but not to worry about us, just to focus on his recoovery.  He has no family here and lives on the road so its been tough for him.  Hope she feels better!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@funkyone8604: Sorry to hear that for your friend… I hope she will be alright

 

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Aww, it’s so lovely of you to be considerate and supportive for her! I hope she gets better soon, and I offer well-wishes for your wedding! 🙂

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