(Closed) Sick Father, BFF wants no part in wedding, I’m becoming really sad…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@gymgirl28: I’m really sorry that you are having to deal with all of this. I don’t have any advice, as it sounds like you have a sort of game plan, but I wish all the best for you. Lean on your Fiance, and let him give you the support and love you need right now. * hugs *

Post # 4
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1446 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m so sorry about your situation. My dad was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer last September and my Fiance and I discussed getting married so he could be there for it. He ended up passing away in January, much quicker than any of us expected. I say do what your dad wants you to do-if he enjoys the wedding planning and it’s a distraction for him, then keep it up. But if you would rather just get married now so you can put all your focus into spending time with your dad (and ensure he gets to be there for it), that makes perfect sense too.

As for your best friend, that sucks. It’s always hard when the people you care about the most abandon you when you need them the most. Stay positive and PM me if you want to talk.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You and your fiancé are worth celebrating, and you will have a lovely wedding. You are smart to plan for the church ceremony and reception later if indeed it comes to it. Until then, breathe. Plan your wedding. One thing at a time. As for your former friend who was like a sister to you, I’m very sorry that falling out occurred. I understand it is very difficult for you to deal with on top of everything else. Again, this is a change that is probably for the best. It just hurts a lot right now, but each day you will grow stronger in your other friendships and realize that this former friend has to travel down a different path. As simple as that. Wish her well, and move on with your life, m’dear. There are so many wonderful people in your life that deserve your energy and with whom you can share your world because they are positive influences and not leeches.

 

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