(Closed) Sick of men trying it on with my bisexual FI

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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3773 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

It must be frustrating, but maybe if he gave simple reply of “I am with so-an-so now and we happily planning our wedding”.  Maybe once the whole thing is cleared  the messages will stop.

Post # 5
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169 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

I agree with him replying to the emails saying he is happily planning his wedding. How would you want him to reply if they were woman pestering him? I’d see it exactly the same way as thats and tell my man to tell them to go away, oh and delete them on Facebook!

Post # 6
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926 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

If they’re being that obnoxious, he needs to de-friend them.  I would treat this exactly the same as Fiance being friends with women who didn’t respect our relationship.  It’s disrespectful of him to keep communicating with them when he knows damn well their intents.  

Post # 8
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6124 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Oh man I hope this gets nipped in the bud by the time you get married! 

Do you think he secretly enjoys the attention?  Or will he not block and people he really knows?

Post # 9
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3220 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

He’s right in saying that replying will encourage them– it’s opening up a means of conversation.  He should be blocking anyone that makes him uncomfortable. 

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