(Closed) *sigh* how do I address this envelope!?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: How should I write their names?
    Steve Smith and Sarah Jones-Smith : (14 votes)
    70 %
    Steve and Sarah Smith : (3 votes)
    15 %
    Steve and Sarah Jones-Smith : (1 votes)
    5 %
    Don't invite them (haha) : (0 votes)
    Other : (2 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
    3564 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I guess you’re not doing mr and Mrs, right? So I would probably write Sarah and Steve Smith (I think the woman goes first).

    Edited to add that if you KNOW she hyphenated, then I would write Sarah Jones-Smith and Steve Smith.

    Post # 4
    278 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Especially since you know she doesn’t really care, either of your first two options is fine. The third is not really correct, since that’s not his last name, so I wouldn’t use that. You know she won’t be offended, so it doesn’t really matter.

    Post # 5
    5496 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2010

    I would use the first choice, since you know that she hyphenates her name.

    Post # 6
    1080 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    I would use the first or the second.

    Post # 7
    1756 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I voted “other” – I would go with option #1, but with her name first.

    Post # 8
    7173 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Since you asked her and it’s not a big deal – I’d just go with his last name.

    Post # 9
    11325 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    usually i’d say #1… i think that is the safe bet. Since you asked her though you could prob just go with his last. She sounds like me… I want to keep my maiden name for professional reasons but socially you can call me anything. 🙂

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