(Closed) Sigh…it isn’t happening.

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
10366 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Can he not just make the special effort to go down there himself? Seems fair.

Post # 4
515 posts
Busy bee

I don’t mean to be rude but I think it’s a little unfair for you to say it’s not his fault but also say you feel resentful towards him, when he’s only trying to do something that would mean a lot to you.

I’m sorry he’s not proposing though.

Post # 5
811 posts
Busy bee

@JessM10:  I think you just needed to vent. I can understand why you feel resentful towards him – because he has let you down in a way but you must remember it’s not his fault. I don’t know how long ago he told you he was going to propose by the 14th, hopefully it wasn’t on the 1st.

I think you just need to try to relax and be nice to him – I’m sure he’s beating himself up enough without you doing it too (not being mean, just trying to give a fair perspective)

Post # 6
580 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Don’t want to give you false hope, but was he maybe trying to throw you off? It’s not the 14th yet, so I’d try and be a bit hopeful? Unless you think 100% it’s not happening :/

Post # 8
1133 posts
Bumble bee

Aw poor thing, I can sympathize with you 100% ! It doesn’t mean he loves you any less or you love him any less. Everything happens for a reason so just try to keep your head up! 🙂 It will happen!

Post # 9
337 posts
Helper bee

@JessM10:  If you don’t want him to “break his promise” again (although, I have to say, it isn’t his fault your dad’s work schedule isn’t what you’d hoped/thought), you have to accept that he asks your dad for his blessing over the phone or doesn’t ask your father at all.  Think about if you’d prefer he did that and continued with the proposal or postponed it and talk to him about it.

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