(Closed) SIL as BM?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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5242 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I wouldnt say you HAVE to have her in your wedding party its your decision. My situation is similar in that I asked my brothers long time girlfriend to be one of my bridesmaids because my brother will be in the wedding and since it is a destination wedding she will be there. Me and her are not close but I figured it would be a nice way for me to get to know her and she was very honoured that I asked her to be in the bridal party.  I will have 6 bridesmaid now because I have added her.

Post # 4
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1043 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I don’t think you HAVE to invite her to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man.  Especially since you’re not close.  And I’m sure she doesn’t expect it either. 

Post # 5
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3305 posts
Sugar bee

You don’t have to so you have to make the decision if you want her to be. She probably doesn’t expect it since she didn’t ask you.

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