- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
I tried searching through the forums and didn’t quite find a situation like mine, so I figured I should ask:
My brother and SIL got married in November and I was not a Bridesmaid or Best Man. Well, no one was as she didn’t have any, so no hard feelings at all. It was a lovely Destination Wedding so naturally the party was small. Since she is not my SO’s sister, but rather my brother’s wife, would it be considered rude if I didn’t ask her to be a BM? I’m not sure if SO will be asking my brother, but I think that he may. I really have a lot of time to think about this stuff, but it’s kind of a question I have been tossing around in my head for a while. I already have 5 other girls that I def want standing up with me (and really I could add more, but I don’t want to open that can of worms) and 6 might be too many with a guest list of about 100. SIL and I are not close, though I have nothing against her. We never really talk and I see her maybe 1-2 times a year as we live on different sides of the state. Any thoughts would be appreciated!