(Closed) SIL blasted me at our engagement party

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 2
2019 posts
Buzzing bee

Telling her she’s ugly will for sure make the situation much better. 

Post # 3
1604 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

At the wedding, sit her a table in the back with old people she doesnt know. 

Post # 5
1888 posts
Buzzing bee

Telling her that she’s ugly in response would just give her remarks more power, because it would communicate that you care about looks as much as she does.

Maybe your Fiance can tell her how ugly her words were.

Post # 7
337 posts
Helper bee

Don’t stoop to her level.  And since she is your FI’s sister, I would get him to have a little “chat” with her.


Post # 8
1165 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Honestly, she wouldn’t be invited to the wedding. I don’t care if she’s family, you don’t get to insult me and then attend a special day in my life. Nope nope nope. 

Post # 9
642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 1988

Yes, you should… because that’s how adults act…SMH!!!!

As adult, you say nothing!


Post # 10
6507 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

They must have changed the legal marriage age, because last time I checked, mean middle school girls weren’t allowed to marry without parental permission.

Post # 11
1184 posts
Bumble bee

Speak to your Fiance. She’s his family so he should follow it up. Something like ‘your personal comments to my Fiance are uncalled for. Keep your opinions to yourself’

then its on her. If she continues then it will be ‘we’ve already spoken about this. If you continue to be rude then we can’t have somebody who doesn’t support our marriage at the wedding.’

she sounds like a brat. Just be polite to her and all his family incase she decides to play victim. 

Post # 12
4098 posts
Honey bee


Post # 13
1472 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Hahahaha this is hilarious! OP you should put her at the kiddy table so she can color and talk about rainbows and Barney or whatever kids talk about. Also, give her a friendly reminder that it’s inappropriate to drink adult beverages at the kiddy table….I’m sure she’ll have a blast at your wedding! πŸ˜‰

Post # 14
862 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

just let it go…is she married? If not, then she is jealous!! 

Post # 15
1078 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

We have an expert on SIL hate somewhere around here. Maybe she’ll grace us with her presence shortly.

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