Post # 1
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Blushing bee
Ok SIL got caught cheating. This has bothered me for some time. I blamed my husband for having interests and even cheating with her cause of her comments about her kid. She always says how my husband looks like her kid. So my BIL tried to hide this and my HB found out from friends they all knew and they wanted to keep it to them self. FINALLY WE KNOW!! I was going crazy to try to figure out why BIL was getting treated so bad by SIL. But SIL would love to give compliments to my HB all the time!! So the guy that she cheated on 8 yrs ago hes back and she moved in with him since last summer. BIL AND SIL both attend family gatherings like nothing has happened they are pretenting to be a family. Now the whole family knows and still they act like nothing happened, i just want to freak out but its not my place to say anything. My HB said something in private to BIL and he says he wants to give her another chance and have her make a choice. MY HB said there is no more chances, she wants him. So i am soooo happy she will be out of the familly she annoyed me so much with her crap, BIL deserves someone so much better. I want to help him out pick a real nice girl.
Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
Sorry… I’m a little confused. Was your SIL cheating with your husband (I’m assuming that is what HB stands for).
And is BIL taking her back? Or are they breaking up?
Sorry I’m so confused.
Post # 5
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Bumble bee
You blame your husband because she always says that your husband looks like her kids?
Was she cheating with your husband?
So confused!
Post # 6
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Honey bee
Ya, I tried reading that and it doesn’t really make sense.
Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
Me too , im confused .. your husband slept with her??? who does the kid belong to?
Post # 8
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Busy bee
Nvm, I misread the post as being incest. Oops. Lol. Still confused though.
Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
Yeah, I’m confused as well….was she cheating with YOUR husband?? And are your BIL and SIL breaking up? And, what’s with the comments SIL is making about her kid looking like Your DH?
Post # 10
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Helper bee
*scratches head* what’s a HB?
Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
@MeAndDubby: lol i wish there were a “like” button
Post # 13
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Helper bee
So your husband fathered her child and now she doesn’t want your BIL back, she only wants your husband? Sorry the whole thing read like an extremely confusing Springer episode…
Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
Yeah, I can’t follow either. Maybe calm down a bit and try again? You sound very excited in the original post.
Post # 15
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Helper bee
Sorry, dear, I’m confused! Who was she cheating with? Your husband? I dont understand. Try to break it down a little more so we can get more of a background story.
Post # 16
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Honey bee
I THINK this is how it went:
OP (Mary) yelled at her husband (John) saying John was cheating with her SIL (Jane) because SIL kept saying SIL’s baby looks like OP’s Husband.
Jane is currently living with an old flame who is the baby’s REAL father.
Mary’s BIL and Jane are split but still acting like a family because Mary’s BIL wants to give Jane a chance to repent and come back. John told BIL that Jane doesn’t want to come back.
BIL and Jane are now seperated and planning on a divorce and Mary is finally happy to get Jane out of the family.
Once more, the Cast:
Op = Mary
OP’s Husband = John
OP’s SIL = Jame
Hopefully that makes a little more sense? Though, I COULD be wrong on this…
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