(Closed) SIL issues..

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
9567 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2018

Well it is one little thing that shouldn’t bother me but it does – FI and I don’t live together, but FSIL always takes FI’s DVDs without asking and does not return them… Really annoys me, especially since FI doesn’t really stand up for himself and say that’s not ok. My sister used to do the same with my DVDs until I put my foot down and refuse to lend her DVDs most of the time. So I am concerned about when FI and I live together, will our sisters come over and take stuff and not return it, especially if they or our parents have a key.

Sorry that’s all I got lol.

Post # 4
3378 posts
Sugar bee

@dannielle89:  I had SIL issues in my first marriage. Basically both SILs and BIL’s wife all disliked me and left me out of everything. One SIL actually went out of her way to start problems, we had an agrument one time (long story) where she did something with my daughter that I asked her not to do. I told her that was incredibly rude. I said “I’m her mother!” and she goes ‘Well, I’m her Aunt!!!” as if she has the right to over rule me?! It was a long 5 years being married into that family.

Right now I have no problems with my soon-to-be SILs, but they live in another country and we barely speak. My problem right now is my future BIL. He’s only 17 and he tries to weasle money out of FI for everything, all the time. I told FI he’s ridiculous if he sends him any more money (we should not be short on rent so FBIL can take his gf out on a date, the money gifting was way out of hand!) FI finally put his foot down. So then FBIL starts FB messaging me asking if I will talk to FI about sending him money for X, X and X. And then he started asking me for money! We were barely engaged at that point. Like dude, get a job!

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