- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
We had something kinda sorta similar but not exactly. I think you should go if you’re invited. If you still aren’t invited, that’s on them, not you. The wedding is a big deal, no matter how shitty your SIL is. DH’s brother refused to go to our wedding and the family still suffers from his decision to this day. It doesn’t matter who is in the wrong or who is right, your family and friends WILL talk, even though it’s none of their business, and your mom will be sad and everyone is going to resent everyone else until god knows when. If they do invite you, I suggest you go even if you don’t stay the whole event, be pleasant and don’t think too much about your problems with them. That way, you can say you did your best and that you were there for them.