(Closed) SIL Wants To Plan Bday Party Right Before Wedding

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 2
5014 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

So take your neice out to a special dinner/movie/whatever the weekend before and don’t go to the party. Instead of feeling like she’s out to get you, just feel like she can plan her life and you will atend if you can. Just like how you planned your life and she can’t go to your wedding. 

Post # 5
6550 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

SprinkleDonut:  You don’t have to go to the party. You are leaving to get married, its totally acceptable. Anyone who doesn’t understand that can go scratch. I have a niece and nephew (my SILs kids as well), and I missed 1 or two parties. Its not that serious, we just make it up to them the next time we see them.

The other thing I will say is that, I would never suggest when SIL should have HER kids’ party just bc you want to go. She can throw a party whenever she wants, the world does not revolve around your wedding and plus she figures, since shes not going, it doesn’t matter that its the day before.

Dont worry about this. You are getting married. You bigger things to worry about than a kids party right now

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