Post # 16
She sounds like a real treat. I would tell your Fiance all you have done, and her replies. And then pass her off to him. Give him the options and tell him to work it out with her. She can now be his problem. So can the flower girl dress. And yes, the 4 year old can wear a dress if she wants to be in the wedding. You need to cut your losses with this woman and get back to being the zen bride. 🙂
Post # 17
She can only cause drama in your life if you let her. If it were me, I would go shopping together and show her examples of dresses you like, and tell her that obviously she can still wear whatever she feels comfortable in, you are just giving her examples.
Post # 18
I am not suggesting for an instant to use a child for manipulation.
The not wearing dress thing came entirely from the SIl. There has been nothing to suggest the chidl doesn’t want to wear a dress or be a fg. I’m not suggesting a surprise attack lol!!